WHAT IS DIFFICULT SITUATION?
Life is Full of surprise and miracles due to which we face an uncertain situation without any warning and clues.
A big example of a difficult situation is COVID 19 came into our life unknowingly as a catastrophe and have a disastrous effect on human life. Which is a difficult situation in everyone's life which is known as a pandemic.
This varies in different ways like some will get an uncertain situation in SCHOOL LIFE OR HOSTEL LIFE or at the Workplace or at the family platform as I faced in CORONAVIRUS where my whole family become a victim. Another is AUSTRALIA FIRE 🔥 thousands of species had lost their habitats and ecosystem. It was a DIFFICULT SITUATION.
AMAZON FOREST FIRE the biggest fire become a victim in 2020. Was a DIFFICULT SITUATION and Challenge to the governments. So will discuss how to accept and deal with such situations and at different platforms and How to deal with difficult situations in life.
STEPS TO ACCEPT TOUGH SITUATIONS IN LIFE
1. Recognise The Situation.
As I mentioned earlier Covid 19 was an uncertain and disastrous situation which we had accepted. But people sometimes don't recognise and acknowledge the situation and they simply avoid it.
But the longer we try to avoid the situation or any problem, The longer time it will take to address and recover.
The best example of Covid 19, Worldwide countries earlier in March 2019 has taken steps like Strict lockdown, curfews, new rule and regulation, vaccine development that's why it has been possible to reduce it and saves lives of thousands of millions of people. So be prepared for such kind of problems. As we have experience of this catastrophe so in future it will be beneficial to deal with.
2. Think calmly and Make A plan.
Many people after getting into such situations become stressed and despite dealing calmly and understanding the situation and eventually becomes the VICTIM OF FRUSTRATION and at place Motivation where missing. Don't do that. Just try to understand the situation, think positively about what happened at that moment and what are the methods to get out of it. Try but don't cry. Students in Competitive Exams like in UPSC. Need to take it easy. So try to think about how to handle this difficult situation in the easiest way.
And make a plan in which you will add some ways to deal with it. Like meditation, brainstorming, counselling helps you to make a substantial plan. In which you can get the help of others and family members etc.
Eventually, planning and organizing are important.
3. Decide with Consultation.
Sometimes individuals can't think fastly and rationally about their situation. So need to ask for some help and decision making with Consultation with your friends, family members, aspirations, teachers etc.
Because at the difficult situation we suffered from the hectic process and at that time we need emotional support from someone who helps us to get into it.
Open to people in which many ways and Solutions come out and helpful to deal with it.
4. Positives and Negatives.
Like we have to understand first of all positives and negatives about situations which helps us to go through it in the dealing process. And also helps in drawing a map of our further steps to counter it in a good manner. For example, if we fighting coronavirus by incurring Lockdowns in the zone prone cities then what shall be the impacts of incurring Lockdown in cities that will help in lockdown management.
Like our coastal information tells us about cyclones, storms through GIS, GPS etc.
5. What can we do to deal with it?
Find out different methods to reduce its impact in a short period. So that needs time to think about it. Not all in our hand but identify areas where we can do some changes.
Many examples are fit here. One is Death in such circumstances we can't do anything to bring back this person. (As I have been crying since my mother's death for 3 years but I changed this and used to live happily).
Another is failure when people fail in their goal they lose their strength and convert into weaknesses which affect further growth. Change is very important in our life. This helps also to change our attitude and move towards more maturity.
6. Focus and Concentrate on the situation without getting into Frustration.
Bill gates in one interview have been given a pen and asked to write one word to tell youths and all persons to succeed in life and how to become successful. He wrote a one-word Focus. Focus and concentration in life play a great role.
Do thing without expectations and sometimes come back good by these efforts. In such situations, we experience new situations which will help us to make our foundation strong to deal with upcoming unknown events.
Whatever, wherever it is, try to understand the situation and learn something from it. Because experience is the main source of LONG TERM MOTIVATION.
7. Try to deal with it simply don't go with shortcuts.
Strength in the struggle.
Meanwhile, our patience level has been decreasing exponentially and because of that we try to follow shortcuts to get output from it but this is completely wrong. Hard work is the only key to have success. Whenever we face such situations try to deal with the straight forward route. Try to use DIVIDE AND RULE STRATEGY means break issues into parts and simplify them so life also becomes SIMPLER AND helps in LIVE SUSTAINABLY. it doesn't matter the time taken process but dealing and improving situation itself matters in life.
In this way, you can handle difficult situations in life and the above-described description also answer of How to face difficult situations in life.
HOW Do YOU HANDLE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS AT WORKPLACE answer?
First of here well and DETAILED INFORMATION related to work is known to everyone and TRAINING should be given regarding work is MANDATORY STEP IN WORKPLACE. Without knowing this facing Situation is not difficult but different because of a lack of knowledge related to your site work.
MINDSET OF INDIVIDUAL play a vital role in handling the Situation at the site, Situation may be related to work, or of the family during work, accident or misunderstanding between supervisor.
CALM AND PATIENCE will help to come out. Many people become a victim of anger due to which they lost control and do whatever they want which is completely wrong.
GOOD COMMUNICATION between team members will help in dealing with a difficult situation at the worksite.
Finding out Solutions earlier of Negative impacts of work that is earlier precautions will help in avoid and deal with difficult situations.
- IDENTIFY THE SCENE.
- DESCRIBE THE DIFFICULTY LEVEL.
- YOUR RATIONAL APPROACH STEP BY STEP.
- COMMUNICATION ABOUT HAPPENED SCENE.
- STRATEGY AND PLAN TO RECOVER IT.
HOW DO YOU WIN A DIFFICULT SITUATION?
- IDENTIFYING THE PROBLEM.
- PROBLEM-SOLVING APPROACH.
- THINKING IN RATIONAL WAY.
- TEAMWORK.
- INDEPENDENT EFFORTS.
- DECISION MAKING AT THAT SITUATION.
- PROPER COMMUNICATION WITH COORDINATORS.
- TIME MANAGEMENT TO ORGANISING SETUP.
- POSITIVE MINDSET.
- IMPLEMENTATION OF PLAN ACCORDINGLY.
WHAT ARE SOME DIFFICULT SITUATIONS IN LIFE OR EXAMPLES.
- Quarter-life & midlife crisis.
- Breakups (Nuclear Families)
- Changing Friendship.
- Failures.
- Divorce.
- Losing job.
- Getting older.
- Getting injured & feeling always seek.
- Loosing all that we have in a natural disaster (Covid 19)
- Death of loved one.
HOW TO HANDLE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS IN THE CLASSROOM.
Same method as I mentioned in how to face DIFFICULT SITUATION at Workplace.
In school, we people do many rivals due to warmblood and leading personality feels us king of the area and which further motives by support 3-4 friends. Don't do that make a good friend circle make sure that everyone will help each other in their bad times.
Good communication and behaviour in a class will help in automatic help from other sides without the need for seeking. (be it, friends, be it, other students, be it teachers or any staff)
A good record of study along with present and in other activities makes you one of the different student where you face fewer Difficulties because of good grades.
Becoming the monitor of the classroom or leader is the best option for survival in Difficulties. Here not possible to all students (exceptions always there).
HOW TO HANDLE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS IN INTERVIEW QUESTIONS.
The interview is a simple personality test in which you getting tested before going into the field to know the capabilities of students. The interview is DIFFICULT and DIFFICULT SITUATIONS are given by the panel is a scare thought fixed in the mind of many students.
It is just communication all about your personality where you have to answer one by one with a calm and rational approach.
You can practice mock interviews also talks, debates with loved ones and other senior members. Practice is the only key to overcome Difficulties in an interview which is not actually.
No matter pressure will create because of a panel of senior members in front of you. And our body language and attitude, methods will decide our future.
But we also cannot get an interview as simple as that, we have to prepare ourselves before the interview that how to deal with such a scenario.
HOW TO HANDLE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS AS A LEADER.
A leader likes GANDHIJI played a great role in the Independence of India. They followed that path of AHIMSA AND SATYAGRAHA. They were able to build a mass movement and success in achieving goals because of their policy of NON-VIOLENCE.
People trust them purely and did support to stand against colonialism. What we have to learn is that leaders power is not in leading people but getting and winning the trust of people and support from them. Due to which sometimes supporters shall solve the Difficulties directly and indirectly.
Solve the problem of people and encourage them to do things which helps in dealing with Difficulties. Leaders knowledge and experience is the key to achieve success in Difficulties. Your perseverance and DISCIPLINE will make it easy.
This is all about hope you will find this blog beneficial.
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